Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Reality Bites

Im not a feminist , but I would always be the first one to react or counter if anyone says the old cliches about girls.
girls cannot stay without gossiping about another girl
Girls , no matter how close they are,they are jealous of their best friends etc etc ...........................
Being a girl I have heard and countered each of these. But the happenings for the past few weeks have got me thinking again...Probably...Just probably may be a few of those cliches might actually be true.

8 girls was a big group to move into a new place.But considering the fact that I was staying with 13 ppl now in a 2 bhk converted to 3bk,it was a better proposition for 8 of us to move out of this place to a new 2bhk house.
It was not the number of ppl alone but a lot of other associated problems and we had no way out than moving from the current place.

It seemed really simple ,jus that we have to look into a 2 bhk with basic furnishings and kazooooo we can shift.
So we stared looking out for a place,oh my god, it seemed like eternity .If the house was good- the society was not ready to take in spinster not even one so where is our point trying to convince them to accommodate 8.
If the society had no problem then atleast one out of the 8 girls had a problem with the house..Either the locality is not ok, the rent is far to high, the place is stuffy .....The reason could be anything.

We began looking for a place in the final weeks of February and even by end of march we were not able to find a place. Tensions rose and now egos came into play.
If one person said a yes to a place , then other say's no and gives a new option but the first person does not want a house in the locality. Why? The place was flooded during July 26...Whew !!! Wasn't it like the entire mumbai was flooded????? Lame reasons, arguments and finally no decision !!
Its been three months since we started looking for a house but we do not seemed to have even moved one step close to our destination.

"Girls can never decide....And when its 8 there will never be a single decision"-said my colleague . Most unlikely from me, I jus did not counter this b'cause I knew he might be right , we can never decide!!!

1 comment:

ThoughtWaves said...

Pretty close observations..!!
But Technically speaking... forget all this.. eh i read somwhere "8 girl"... gimme their address and phone nos. ;-))

lol!!